A cancer diagnosis can be a real wakeup call. My type of cancer is terminal but treatment has progressed to the point that I'll die with it and not of it. Which is a big plus. But still the illness has changed my outlook on life in general. Like setting priorities and not putting things off. Tomorrow is no guarantee. How has your cancer changed the way you deal with life? Do you live more fully in the now? Do little things not bother you so much? How has cancer changed your outlook on life?
When I was 49 years old, my doctor wanted me to get a colonoscopy & a byproduct of it was I was diagnosed with lymphocytic lymphoma & I am so grateful to still be around. I “watched & waited” for a long time but eventually my spleen started getting bigger & my numbers were off. My diagnosis changed to Splenic Marginal Zone Lymphoma so I was treated with Rituxan. I am a lucky man because I am 72 years old now & getting ready to move into a brand new condo-townhouse in SC, so it won’t be too much to maintain. My best friend in SC. is a rescued 9 year old Italian hunting dog & he’s mostly agreeable just like me !!!!!
Cancer has had a profound effect on my life. I was diagnosed with terminal AITL in mid-2022: declined treatment due to the poor prognosis and entered hospice care. From that moment, I accepted that my time was limited and was unafraid. I trusted the Lord to do whatever was right for me. I spent my hospice time focusing outward, rather than on my own situation which included much pain and bouts of nausea/vomiting. I wanted to live the remainder of life for the glory of God. I planned my memorial (to save my husband the agony), reconnected with old friends and sent them homemade items, talked with someone every day, sharing the good news of my faith. It was actually a wonderful time, filled with love and kindness from friends, relatives and even strangers.
Long story short - God healed me. I was discharged from hospice early this year, recovered from drug treatment and have tested clean of cancer in last two PET/CTs. The experience changed me much for the better and I'm grateful for the cancer. Life isn't easy, since I'm left with debilitating arthritis and unwilling to use pain medication. I now sing in my church choir and try my best to honor God's command to love everyone and look for the good, because it is there to be discovered. Blame no one and expect nothing. Everything and every day is a gift. I hope this helps someone.
Susan God has taught you a lot. You made my day, thanks 👍
I was diagnosed with lymphoma in 2003 within a year of retiring at age 59. I was in graduate school studying history. My plan was to teach at a community college or a SUNY college. That plan was shelved to get treatment and recover. My full focus turned to my wife, children, grand children and friends. These past 20+ years included two relapses and a case of stomach cancer. Also, I produced a unique high school history curriculum as a consultant. But most of all I enjoyed my time with loved ones which is still my primary focus. Each day is more precious. I am grateful for my care and support all these years.
I have a much closer relationship with Jesus. Without my faith in him I truly believe I wouldn’t have ever believed (and. II believe this because I am still living and loving today.) that I would survive Stage 4Non Hodgkin’s Lymphoma. My love forever and ever of my husband Dale who has been my guardian angel on earth. My love forever for my children and grandchildren who are so loving and supportive. I am blessed to be able to share my life with them and keep doing all the things I enjoy doing in life.
I complained bitterly about side effects of my treatment. Yep, I struggle with it too but it’s something I have to learn to accept as part of the gift of life.