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Concord, CA

I’m sorry, but this is just taking a toll on my mental health and my family. I’m depressed everyday, and each day that goes by I’m even more depressed. I’m on my 3rd RCHOP treatment coming up next week, and I don’t think I can take my new routine, just isolating myself of everything, it’s been a month and half and I haven’t left my home only for appointments, because of my bowel and urinary issues. Need some help pls, trying to stay positive, but it’s so hard. If anyone wants to connect via… read more

January 28 (edited)
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Please do not feel bad about being down. Unless you've been through a cancer diagnosis, treatments and everything else associated with this disease you can't know what people are going through. I was very down and anxious when first diagnosed. I did a lot of praying and leaned on my faith in God to get me through.

January 29
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How can you manage the mental health toll of lymphoma treatment while dealing with isolation and side effects?

What you're experiencing is incredibly common and valid. Many MyLymphomaTeam members share similar feelings. One member wrote, "Feeling depressed and lonely. No one understands how I feel." Another said, "I feel Show Full Answer

How can you manage the mental health toll of lymphoma treatment while dealing with isolation and side effects?

What you're experiencing is incredibly common and valid. Many MyLymphomaTeam members share similar feelings. One member wrote, "Feeling depressed and lonely. No one understands how I feel." Another said, "I feel so alone... and my mind wanders too far."

There are several reasons why lymphoma can impact mental health so significantly:

- Long periods of isolation (like you're experiencing)
- Reduced mobility and activity
- Constant worry about your condition
- Chemical and hormonal changes from treatment
- Loss of your usual routines and relationships

The side effects you're dealing with—bowel and urinary issues—are making isolation feel necessary, which creates a difficult cycle affecting your sense of self and daily life. Please talk to your healthcare team immediately about what you're experiencing. Depression can actually affect how well you manage your treatment, so addressing it is crucial for your overall health.

Consider these steps:

- Tell your doctor about the depression and the specific side effects (bowel/urinary issues) that are keeping you isolated
- Ask if medications or adjustments can help manage these side effects
- Request a referral to a mental health professional who works with people facing chronic illness
- Discuss whether your treatment plan needs modification

Your relationships and activities matter deeply to your wellbeing. Working with professionals who can help you navigate both the physical symptoms and emotional challenges can make a real difference. You don't have to handle this alone.

January 28

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