When most people hear the words home hospice care, they’re likely hit with a wave of sadness, uncertainty, and possibly even fear — especially if they don’t know what to expect. But home hospice services can provide you or your loved one with comfort and dignity in a familiar setting, surrounded by family.
Learning what to expect can help you utilize the services that hospice care provides and have the right expectations. With home hospice care, family and caregivers provide 24-hour care, but they don’t have to carry the weight of caregiving and loss alone.
We’ll discuss what to expect with home hospice care, including what care is provided and the role family or caregivers play. We’ll also cover how to prepare your home and how to make the decision of hospice care together.
While each hospice provider is different, home hospice organizations generally provide services to support your loved one’s end-of-life goals and assist you with caregiving. This may include visits from home health aides and nurses as well as supplies, equipment, and medications.
It’s important to know that families and caregivers are expected to provide 24-hour care. Home hospice services aren’t meant to replace that.
Once your loved one’s care plan is agreed upon, the hospice team will share which tools and medications the organization will provide. The goals are to reduce pain, boost comfort, and support caregiving.
Here’s a general overview of what care and supplies home hospice organizations provide and what family and caregivers are expected to provide.
Home hospice care includes comfort-based care and support for people nearing the end of their lives. Typically, those with about six months or less of life remaining are considered eligible for hospice care. Hospice care can be extended by the physician as long as the person continues to be eligible.
Home hospice care can be provided at your residence or the home of a family member. In general, home hospice requires someone to be with the person receiving care 24 hours a day, seven days a week.
Usually, this is the primary caregiver, but it can be helpful if you have a friend or family member who’s able to help out as well. Dividing up tasks or care keeps everyone from burning out or getting overwhelmed.
Once hospice care begins, the primary caregiver keeps track of symptoms, helps with medications, and lets the hospice team know when supplies and medications are running low. They also provide daily care, including personal hygiene and meals.
The hospice care team will also let the caregiver know how to handle emergencies. Typically, this means calling the 24-hour nurse line rather than calling 911 or going to the emergency department.
It’s important to note that going to the hospital first could put your hospice benefits in jeopardy.
It can be challenging to provide the 24-hour care families need to provide during home hospice. Taking advantage of respite care can help you better cope. There are two different types of respite care.
Medicare covers respite care when someone’s receiving hospice care. The person or the family can opt to receive hospice care in an approved inpatient facility for five consecutive days. This allows the caregivers to rest and take care of themselves.
The other type of respite care is available if you’re paying out-of-pocket, through private long-term care insurance, or through funds from a caregiver grant program. A home health aide can visit for a few hours to give you time to run errands, catch up on sleep, or take care of yourself.
It’s normal to worry about safety and care when you or your loved one is being tended to at home.
Here are some steps you can take:
Also, make sure you have the right mindset when it comes to hospice care. Too often, people assume that hospice is about dying. Hospice care is actually about living comfortably. In fact, researchers have found that hospice care sometimes leads to better symptom control and fewer emergency room visits.
Hospice care’s goal is to improve your loved one’s quality of life and boost their comfort — all in a space where they feel safe and loved. It also gives families meaningful time together before the final days arrive.
If your loved one passes away while receiving home hospice care, know that you don’t need to rush. You also don’t need to call 911. Instead, allow yourself some space to hold your loved one’s hand, grieve, and process their death before jumping into action.
When you’re ready, call your hospice provider’s 24-hour line and let them know your loved one has passed away. They will send someone out to help you take the next steps or let you know what to do until they can get there.
Here are some ways they may support you:
When it comes to deciding whether or not home hospice care is right for your family, you need to consider your loved one’s wants and needs first. Do they envision spending the last months of their lives being cared for at home?
Keep in mind, too, that transitioning to hospice care, whether at home or an inpatient facility, means stopping treatment of the terminal condition in favor of comfort, pain management, and quality of life.
The key is to support their wishes and plan as much as possible. If your loved one is ready for hospice care, consider what resources you have available to support their care at home. Be honest about your limitations and communicate respectfully and lovingly with one another.
Also allow room for everyone to ask questions or express their concerns. And, remember that everyone’s likely in a different place mentally and emotionally regarding hospice care.
Read more about deciding when it’s time for hospice.
Most likely, your loved one will need round-the-clock care. Ask yourselves if you have the ability to do that. Some families have one or two people who are able to take on the bulk of the responsibility, with others lending support where they can.
Other families might all work full time, have small children, or live out of town. In these situations, it might be helpful to hire someone to help with care when a family member can’t be there. You can also consider inpatient hospice or another avenue.
A social worker with your loved one’s care team can assist you in making a decision that’s best for the entire family. The goal is to keep your loved one’s wishes at the forefront and make it possible for family members to provide comfort and care.
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